Thinking of you

'When I'm with him, I am..thinking of you'

The excerpt from Katy Perry's single, Thinking of you led all the guys in the world to face a question, 'Can girls fall in love with more than a person at the same time?'

Well, I am not an expert to tell you whether it is applicable to everyone or whether this a yes or no.
To be fair, I think regardless whether a guy or gal, we are prone to face ambiguous situations at one point or another in our life and that will not exclude love and relationships.

Indecisiveness? Perhaps.
Polygamy, not really accurate unless that same person is dating two people at the same time.

Back to the question, can we fall in love with more than one person?
Again, no sure answer but probably yes.

Sometimes, love can be really complex and it can be pretty hard to tell between deep feelings of love to affections of friendship/infatuation.
Just when you thought you have found the guy of your dreams but then comes along another charming and suave guy who just happens to treat you so great and so sweetly that you start to wonder, could this be the real one?

Unfair as it sounds, sometimes, we human beings are just complicating ourselves.
We are all granted with the gift of thought and when we indulge ourselves in all sorts of thoughts, that is when we meet with trouble.
Furthermore, love is no ABC subject, where there is right or wrong, should or should not.

It is tough when you are with one guy and another seem to occupy the back of your mind.
Kinda unfair to the guy you are with; but yet at the same time, things seem beyond your control.
You know it's wrong, but you couldn't wipe him out. Is it love?
At the same time, you also know that the guy you are with at the moment is another guy you couldn't lose and you know you love him very much.
Hurting him would be one of the very last thing on your mind.
Therefore, you let yourself into the mental turmoil of battling against the right and wrong and how should you proceed although deep down inside, you know the answer.
Some may realize that their true love is the one at the back of their mind and make a bold move; neglecting the hurt inflicted on their current partner.
Some will just play safe, why throw away the current stone in hand for another stone which is not sure whether will come in your grasp?
But most importantly, what do you want in the end?

Differentiating between love or not love, it is just a fraction of thin line.
Perhaps that is what makes indecisiveness; but one word of caution, we still somehow need to make clear our feelings at one point.
It will not be fair to be stoking the violin strings back and forth and not deciding the right tune to play.