It is funny how big of a difference a man can behave towards a woman when they fall in love and OUT of love with her.
It is just a whole deja-vu experience when you look at how fast they change their attitude towards you when they have moved on and realized that you could never have them in your heart.
I find it all too bizarre and at the same time, an interesting thing to learn. I am not sure whether it works for all men or just a small test sample of men that I have seen, heard or encountered?
No, to give credit to my admirers, most of them are not like that because we all end up as good friends and are still keeping in touch until these day (excluding that one bad stalker guy)
When a Man Loves you or falls for you,
1. He will want to see you everytime; and look forward to meeting you at all those big group gatherings so that they can have a chance to talk to you
2. He will take time to drop you a text message on IM or your cell phone and is especially excited when he sees you online or when you send them a text message first.
He will not waste time in immediately inviting you for a quick chat
3. He will send you emails and will reply your emails even when yours is long and wordy like you are writing a thesis on English literature
4. He will ask you out, relentlessly, and try to find out your availability on weekends or even weekdays to have some alone time with you. (Using excuses such as movies, lunch/dinner, hiking, exercise, etc)
5. He will be anxious when they hear you are sick and sends you text messages to cheer you up and telling you to take care and get well soon.
6. He offer to drive you home when you did not drive on that particular day or they can even pick you up from your home anytime and claims that the distance is negligible although there are probably a few hills to get through before they reach you
7. He remembers everything you say that you like/dislike, what are your favorite food, and what is your favorite pastime.
8. He agrees immediately to any activity if they know you are going to be there.
9. He will always back you up in unjust situations, and speak up for you whenever they feel you are being unfairly judged
10. He is interested in everything you say, no matter how boring your life is.
When a Man starts to fall OUT of love,
1. He pretends that he cannot see you even when you are there at a function or gathering, and just walks away from you
2. He replies your text messages in a curt and business-like manner, and even if it slips his mind, he just ends your text conversation abruptly or chooses not to reply your text or call at all.
3. He replies your email with a short, "Noted, thanks"
4. He will avoid all activities with you in it, with excuses that he is away or engaged with something else.
5. He does not even know when you are sick or pretends that he does not know about your sickness at all.
6. He will leave early with some excuses so that he will not be alone with you under any circumstance
7. He still remembers what you like/dislike but it does not matter to him at all, and he tries to show you that he has forgotten about it, or does not even care about it
8. He is busy everytime there is an activity with you in it
9. He says nothing for you anymore, and does not even make any eye contact with you at all, avoiding you at all costs
10. He loses his interest in everything about you and all that you have to say about yourself
When a Man falls OUT of love with you, he really does not care about you anymore.
It is sweet when they are truly and fully in love with you, but when they totally lost that passion and love, you are not just no longer in his heart and mind, but you are not even in his eyes anymore.
They can make your heart warm when they fall for you, but they can also break or crush your heart to pieces
They can make you smile so sweetly, but they can also make you cry so bitterly
That is all it takes; when a man changes from loving you to loving you not...
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